The Forethought of Grief

Posted on February 5, 2019February 4, 2019 by Allison

I became a mom almost 13 months ago, and so many changes came with it. The obvious struggles of newborn life were there, but also there was something else. The joy that accompanied my newborn into the world was given...Read More

Procrastinators, Unite

Posted on January 15, 2019January 30, 2019 by Allison

I'm a classic procrastinator. I'll have the blog post page open on my laptop, cursor blinking, and my phone will beep hello at me. I'll pick it up, acknowledge the notification, and then dive headfirst into something distracting, for a...Read More

All the Goals

Posted on January 8, 2019January 7, 2019 by Allison

I like to set lots of goals at the beginning of a new season, and the new year is no exception. I love to track and manage and organize goals and watch how I grow and check things off my...Read More

Lifestyle Photography: Nothing Lasts Forever

Posted on September 18, 2018September 18, 2018 by Allison

People ask me all the time what I wish I had known before I became a mother. My practical answer is always, "nobody told me about the laundry." Seriously, though. Why did no one tell me about the laundry? My...Read More

Superguilt is My Super Power

Posted on September 11, 2018September 9, 2018 by Allison

I've been learning a lot about myself this year. I really thought I'd be able to do the mom thing and the full time job thing and the part time photography thing without any issues and carry on life without...Read More

Sharp as a Tack

Posted on August 28, 2018August 27, 2018 by Allison

After a photo session with a client, I love to race home and immediately pore over the photos we took. It's like Christmas morning, except I know what all the presents are, and it's way more fun to share them...Read More

Burning the Candle at Both Ends

Posted on August 21, 2018August 20, 2018 by Allison

One of my favorite idioms is "burning the candle at both ends." I get it, I can imagine it. You get twice as much light, for half the time. You burn all of your energy by doing two things at...Read More

Step Away from the Phone

Posted on August 7, 2018August 6, 2018 by Allison

My inner monologue sometimes carries a bullhorn to yell reminders at myself from within. It says things like, "don't say that, you'll regret it" or "Stop eating the cookies" or "Go to bed!" Most times, though, it pokes me with...Read More

My Own Personal Yearbook

Posted on July 31, 2018July 30, 2018 by Allison

I like to keep cards and notes from the people I care about. When I'm having a hard day, I sometimes like to reread them as a little pick-me-up. They make me smile, and the inside jokes make me laugh,...Read More

Pick of the Month – A Newer New Format

Posted on June 26, 2018June 24, 2018 by Allison

I've been doing the Pick of the Month series for a while now. I changed the format back in March to more of a series of picks instead of one thing I liked. I'm making another new change to the...Read More

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